Memor-Elayne

Today's self-appointed task, which roped in Robin of course, was going through the boxes marked "Comic Convention Stuff" that had stood in our loft from when we moved in to a couple months ago. I was surprised to find it wasn't "stuff what we used to take to conventions" at all, but rather "collections of convention programs, comics, cards, and other mementos." Since I honestly don't recall doing most of the stuff I did then, and the programs themselves didn't aid my memory, into the trash they went. The two now-empty boxes will house all the greeting cards I've received (two other recovered boxes are also full of cards, I've saved them since I was a kid), and after I retire I'll go through them again to see if they spark memories better than convention programs. One thing I seem to have picked up in the post-COVID era, besides my desire to avoid crowds which means no more major comic cons for me, is that I just don't feel like hanging on to things from past lives if they don't enrich my present. I'm not quite at Kondo level, but at the same time I can't help but remember my college buddy Bill-Dale Marcinko, who died way too young due to a fire in his abode which the firefighters couldn't vanquish because they were unable to get past all his papers and zines and comics and other collections with which he couldn't part. His memory is not just a blessing but an object lesson. We'll see how well I've learnt it.

Manhattan Respite

I was hoping to take in the High Line park at lunchtime, but I'd been up since 4 AM and just found myself too weary to do much more than fetch my lunch. Probably all the moving around of stuff yesterday. I'm glad job stuff kept me busy enough, and the commute was fine (well, the subway's always crowded and at least I always get a seat when it empties appreciably at Times Square, but if it's a "middle" seat things get difficult), but I'm glad to be home to empty my overstuffed backpack. And I'm making good headway with my newest partner, resigning myself to not being able to schedule everything in fewer and fewer hours. After all, I cannae change the laws of physics! And now to bed.

The Cleanout Continues

Honest, we weren't going to do any downsizing work today. Robin needed to rest after yesterday's shredathon, and I had a fairly time-consuming job project. But I woke up and decided to get through all the weekly local newspapers I've not read since July, after which the clear recycle bag needed something else so I threw out a bunch of mini-zines from a shelf that I decided would be a good place to transfer the cleaning products from elsewhere in the library... only some of them didn't fit so Robin moved books up to that shelf to free a better one on the same case, then decided he was restless and wanted to shred some more old financials, but part of that involved blocking another shelf where I've been keeping my read comics so those went into shopping bags to give away to a neighbor... well, you get the picture. So stuff's been rearranged or shredded or stored or whatever, I got my project done and then some, and I'm glad to be going into Manhattan tomorrow so as not to be tempted to Do More...

I'm Walkin' Here

OMG that cold this morning! We got up at 4 AM and I was out of the house in the dark at 6:15 to catch the bus. It's autumn but there was a definite spring in my step which continued throughout my Manhattan workday. My feet didn't seem to hurt! I have no idea how long this period without pain will continue, or to what I can attribute it (my podiatrist visit on Saturday? the socks I wore today?), but I'm enjoying it while it lasts. Meanwhile, Robin had indeed continued the Great Shredding Project of Aught-Twenty-Six, including some really old tax records from before we were married, and had filled a further 5 or 6 bags with the detritus. Only seven more years of old financial records to go, then maybe we can give our shredder a bit of a breather. Meanwhile, I'm starting to think about what other paper I want to toss out in our now-paperless society... zines? college records? old poetry books? I'm halfway in Kondo mode (what exactly is sparking joy anyway?) and halfway in "will I want to keep this to supplement my memory lapses in the future?" mode. We'll see which one wins out. Probably the one that's the most organized...

Shredtaastic

Well, we could have done without the 1:30 AM wake-up as our neighbor's car (which was parked right next to mine) was repossessed. I had no idea repo folks do their job in the dead of night, but it's just one more adventure for us being situated in a 2-familiy house (converted to 3) at the conjunction of a dozen backyards. Anyway, I was punchy all day, fell asleep in the recliner again this afternoon, and only the whirring of our shredder kept me awake, as Robin decided to tackle the old financial records now that the variety of overnight bags and carriers are tossed and our usable suitcases stored in a closet. He made great headway, three bags of shredded paper, and I think he'll be working on it tomorrow as well. I'll be happy just to work on my job stuff for awhile.

It's in the Bag

I'm still fairly exhausted, especially since yesterday's drive, so it was all I could do to wake up enough to drop off some sundries at the local farmer's market then shop at our usual supermarket. It didn't take long to achieve unconsciousness upon our return, and thank goodness I slept most of the afternoon away. No regrets! Once dinner was done we tackled the mound of overnight and carrier bags and such that we've accumulated over the years (so many from Rothstein Kass! you wouldn't think six years of service could produce that much swag). Aside from the tote bags which can be squished anywhere and may still come in handy when it's time to pack for the move, they're all now in the throwaway pile, and Robin was able to fit our actual suitcases and backpacks (some of which were newly-bought a few months back, and three of which were his suitcase set brought over from England 30 years ago) into the tiny closet in the library. So we're now almost back to where we were prior to the Great Rafter Clean-Out of Aught-Twenty-Six. Just a bit more shredding to go, then we start looking through non-financial boxes. But all that is for another day...

Warm and Cozy with Family and Friends

This morning I went for my "medi-pedi" as my feet have been hurting, but the doc looked them over and found nothing major amiss so I carry on. The feet do feel nice now, though. I then drove 90 minutes to my brother's house in NJ for a visit and a pre-birthday lunch, then 15 minutes west to the annual reunion of my college frat buddies (co-ed service fraternity). Lots of fun as we recounted our plans for retirement in England's south coast to various friends, but as the lunch and subsequent pot luck weren't exactly agreeing with me I opted to leave after a couple hours and head back home. We got slammed at the GWB entrance, my main reason for not wanting to travel back from NJ on a Saturday afternoon/evening, but otherwise not a bad drive, and we came home to find that the landlord has finally turned on the heat, so it was lovely coming back to a cozy house after the outdoor chill. Tomorrow we shop and watch baseball (alas, looks like the Tampa Bay Rays are surging again) and football and other such TV while we declutter some more.

Truncated Work Day

I rewarded myself with a couple PTO hours, since I never seem to use them all, which made working from home a bit easier. The AL playoffs were cancelled this evening due to storms in the Cleveland area, and we got a fair few as well. I'm about as ready as I can be for tomorrow's activities, and I've finished every ready-to-eat meal in the fridge and freezer, so I'm looking forward to our Sunday grocery shopping, which may or may not be accompanied by a sushi lunch. Depends on how I weather tomorrow! 

The Ides of October

And all my folks' expense reports are submitted! I wish I could do as well with scheduling client meetings, so many people seem to be out this week and nobody's answering my emails. Very frustrating. Plus, the commute home is really starting to get to me. Maybe it just the change in the weather, or anticipating the coming weekend when we will once again be on the road visiting family and friends (meaning we have to shop on Sunday), but I just can't relax yet. Maybe by Sunday afternoon...

Early Adopters

Robin and I have many sensibilities in common. One of them is preparation. We're already looking (virtually) at retirement bungalows on the south coast of England, trying to narrow down exactly what we want. As I mentioned yesterday, next week we resume our clean-out, but before then there's Saturday. And that's now taken care of. The bean salad took much less time to make this afternoon than I'd anticipated, we're a well-oiled machine now, so I'm set with my potluck contribution to the annual college reunion. And we're meeting my brother Jay before that for a pre-birthday brunch, which has also been scheduled. We don't like to wait on things! This way we can travel without worry, relax and enjoy the day. The weather today only lightened my mood, it got up around 80 degrees F (about 26 degrees C)! so Robin threw open the windows and I took a couple relaxation hours because I'm really, really trying to learn how to just Do Nothing and Be in the Moment and all that...